I've never seen a bed in a bag that was quality. I know you want it to be idiot proof but either find a friend who can help or just buy the exact same color sheets and duvet covers from one brand. Personally, I'd buy everything from one brand and mix it up a little. For example if I needed a total of six sets, I'd get sheets and pillowcases in grey, light blue and dark blue. Then I'd get the duvet covers in similar colors and you would get a result like a bed in a bag.i prefer getting a duvet insert and buying a cover vs a comforter, but that's just me. Stuff lasts longer and is more versatile. Heck, I'd even choose them for you so everything matched. Show me where you want to buy from. Answer from Anna_S_1608 on reddit.com