I'm attending my friend's wedding in Hawaii. I'm just a regular guest, not groomsman. He recommends "Aloha attire", which is basically tropical shirts, and "slacks".

For the shirt, I recently bought this Express black button up shirt in size small. I'm worried that the black color isn't great for weddings. Also I think the sleeves are slightly too long, the chest is ok (I feel some pressure there so any smaller and it would be too small), and length is good. I can still return it if needed. I tried a few other Express shirts in small but their sleeves/lengths were even longer. If the recommendation is to buy something, I'd like to keep each item under $50, or at most $100.

For pants, I'm thinking khakis. Don't know if it's a good combo with the shirt. Otherwise I only have dark or light jeans but jeans seem too casual.

For shoes, I only have khaki-colored knit sneakers and black dress shoes. I'm bringing the sneakers on my trip either way and rather pack light and not buy anything more. But I don't know if the sneakers are too casual or look bad because the color blends with the khakis.

I would like to also go nightclubbing on the same trip. Will bring dark and light jeans too. Would the knit sneakers be fine for all occasions?

Which photo 1-4 is the best for my situation? Should I buy something else?

Hey everyone! I could really use some advice or suggestions on what the groom and groomsmen should wear for our upcoming wedding in Hawaii this September.

We're having an outdoor ceremony with earthy, natural tones in Hawaii. The bridesmaids will be wearing a mix of these shades, which has made it tricky to settle on a color and style for the guys. To make things even more complicated, we’re trying to avoid the typical tan or cream suits. (photos included)

Some ideas I’ve had so far:

• Groom wears a full suit, and the groomsmen wear matching pants with just a button-up shirt (something more casual but still cohesive).

• Everyone wears a full suit in a that works.

Has anyone dealt with a similar situation where the bridesmaids weren’t all in the same color? Any suggestions on color combos, suit styles or specific fabrics that work well? Would love to see examples too if you have any!

Thanks in advance for the help 🙏