exorbitant
exceeding the bounds of custom, propriety, or reason, especially in amount or extent; highly excessive
inordinate
not within proper or reasonable limits; immoderate; excessive
unreasonable
excessive, immoderate, or exorbitant; unconscionable
I would see all these three as stronger than too much.
Answer from Martin Krzywinski on Stack Exchangeexorbitant
exceeding the bounds of custom, propriety, or reason, especially in amount or extent; highly excessive
inordinate
not within proper or reasonable limits; immoderate; excessive
unreasonable
excessive, immoderate, or exorbitant; unconscionable
I would see all these three as stronger than too much.
Waste might be a good choice
I waste too much time on youtube
Waste and spend share similarities in meaning, but waste implies that you shouldn't be spending so much.
In software developer circles gold plating refers to putting effort into a feature or product when it's no longer adding value. Wikipedia has a short article on this.
"Gilding the Lily" is close - trying to improve on something already beautiful. It doesn't really address the time wasting aspect.
"Don't make a mountain out of a molehill" is a phrase for overcomplication or exaggerating is key.
"Wearing both Belt and Suspenders" is one that fits the "being too cautious"