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“Summer formal” meaning?

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To me summer formal means formal, but with considerations for the weather. So you might wear a flowy, sleeveless maxi dress instead of a bodycon satin dress to stay cool, and your friend might wear a linen suit (with tie) instead of a wool or polyester one. Answer from Deleted User on reddit.com

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September 6, 2021 -

Hi! I’m going to a wedding (don’t have much experience) and the attire is “summer formal.” Can someone help me understand what that means? Thanks!

I’m a woman but I am coming with a male friend so all advice is helpful!

To me summer formal means formal, but with considerations for the weather. So you might wear a flowy, sleeveless maxi dress instead of a bodycon satin dress to stay cool, and your friend might wear a linen suit (with tie) instead of a wool or polyester one.

To me "formal" typically indicates dark colors and heavy fabrics. Summer formal says "lighten up" to me. Men can wear a lighter colored suit, or skip some of the vest/cumberbund/other items in the name of staying cool. Dresses can be a little shorter (no shorter than knee length, and even that's pushing it!) And lighter or more brightly colored as long as they are still high end. Wedges are fine, a high end sandal is fine.

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r/Weddingattireapproval on Reddit: “Formal summer” attire but it’s going to be 95°

January 18, 2025 -

My husband and I have been invited to a wedding, and the dress code is “formal summer.” However, this wedding will be outdoors and it is going to be around 95° and very humid. Do you think my husband is still expected to wear a full suit with a jacket and everything? I know I can find a strappy formal dress and hopefully stay cool, but I don’t want him sweating to death, and I don’t really think it’s fair to expect men to wear jackets in this kind of heat. What is the etiquette here?

If anyone invited me to an outdoor event when it’ll be 95 degrees and humid and it doesn’t involve the ocean, a beach, and a giant flipping sun umbrella I’m sending my kind regards and declining the invite. But if you do end up going, and it is gasp during the DAYTIME please take the opportunity to wear the lightest and most airy of dresses and the biggest floppiest hat you can find. Seersucker or linen for your husband and just styled in a way that it looks smart without the suit jacket. Ya’ll ain’t gotta give yourselves heatstroke for someone else’s “vision”. Also, handheld fan. Hell tell your husband to bring one too. And handkerchiefs for the inevitable perspiration. Good luck.

I recommend you use common sense and either don’t go or you both wear whatever won’t threaten your health.

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r/malefashionadvice on Reddit: Advice for summer wedding wear

May 28, 2024 -

What are you wearing to a wedding this summer? I've got a wedding in mid-July that I'll be attending (as a guest, not in the wedding party), and am trying to figure out what to wear. Any advice/guidance/recommendations on styles or places to look?

There are two main events that I need help with - the reception and the ceremony itself. The dress code is described as "cocktail attire" and "summer formal" respectively. For more context, this wedding will be in upstate New York in the Adirondacks/Tupper Lake area with a relatively affluent crowd.

I've been wanting to update my closet anyway, so let's say I need a full set for both nights, but shoes not included. I'm not on a shoe-string budget, but I'm also not looking to blow out my budget. Let's say around $500 total, no more than $1000, but I'm not married (badum tss) to that number if it needs to move around.

Ok so you're running into some ambiguous dress codes here. Cocktail USED to mean evening wear one step below a tuxedo (dark, simple suits.) Like you were going to after-dinner cocktails. In recent years it has come to mean "less formal, light colors acceptable, but still be dressed up." You could wear a sport coat to the current iteration of "cocktail" and be ok but I would ask the host. Summer formal doesn't really mean anything. Formal means white tie or morning dress depending on time of day. It's extremely unlikely that this is what they expect. I'm assuming what they mean is that light colored and non-wool suits are acceptable. Again, I would ask them.

Seersucker, it is made for summer weddings you are a guest at (ie not part of the actual wedding party) Trust me.

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r/Weddingattireapproval on Reddit: Summer wedding, women's non dress options

February 18, 2025 -

Family wedding in a historic mansion, indoor/outdoor event, summer. Dress code is formal, website says "Formal attire is preferred. We never get to get all dolled up anymore so let’s go all out!! Dress to impress babes Please refrain from wearing green or brown."

I am a woman who refuses to wear a dress or skirt for personal reasons, so I'm looking for appropriate formal wear that is NOT a dress. I am also on a limited budget. Any advice is greatly appreciated!

Formal jumpsuit is the way to go! I have 2 formal jumpsuits from TJ Maxx and they were both like $20

A suit could also work, esp. in a more formal fabric or pattern. This one is cute (I’d wear a shirt under though): https://www.stylewe.com/products/regular-sleeve-floral-elegant-lapel-collar-long-sleeve-blazer-16487239 Edit to add: I just realized that’s the price of the blazer alone. A fancy blazer and solid colored pants (if you already have them) is also a good option!

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r/Weddingattireapproval on Reddit: Level of formality appropriate for "summer formal" wedding this weekend?

February 2, 2024 -

The wedding dress code is "summer formal" and for women specifically reads "Tea or full-length dress or gown." I'm thrown off by the distinction between dresses and gowns, and had to Google (have never encountered "gowns" in a dress code, nor have been to a wedding this formal). Is this dress (Baltic Born Kia Kimono Maxi Dress in Dusty Blue Floral) ok? For context, the code for men is "Linen, light, or dark suit and tie". Time frame: evening wedding starting 4:30pm.

Any recommendations for bumping up dressiness welcome, if needed. Thank you for any pointers! Want to be a good guest and blend in!

https://preview.redd.it/2cak93p32y8d1.png?width=1026&format=png&auto=webp&s=271e21ebe27a6182f1ad855bfebf0d0308a83a37

Edit: THANK YOU ALL SO MUCH for saving me from sticking out in a not great way, I learned so much about this dress code! Lol.

This technically meets the dress code… but the pattern and colors seem kind of informal and if people are wearing gowns you might feel like you are wearing a pumpkin patch photoshoot dress. The solid navy version should serve the dress code better.

No returns on Baltic born, just exchanges. To me...looks a little more autumn colors and the wrap style and fabric seem to make it more casual than a typical formal dress.... You wouldn't be kicked out, but others might go for lighter summer colors or florals and sleeveless styles.

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r/Weddingattireapproval on Reddit: “Summer Formal” Dress Code

July 16, 2024 -

Could I get away with any of the short options? There are high end so the quality will be there, but not sure if the mini length automatically disqualifies them? It’s an outdoor wedding in June with a “summer formal“ dress code.

For formal, I would default to ankle or floor length. The two raspberry pinks would be the closest to formal in this group but they're more cocktail than formal. None of the mini dresses are what you want for a formal dress code. I would keep looking.

Personally, a mini dress is never acceptable at a wedding. Also it’s formal, it should be ankle length at least.

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r/fashionwomens35 on Reddit: Formal wedding guest attire

March 1, 2023 -

I’m having a hell of a time shopping for a formal dress for a late summer wedding. I’m tall and will not be wearing heals. I prefer midi length but it doesn’t feel as formal.

I have no idea what brands or shops are legit, outside of department stores. I feel like the formal dress section of online shopping for most department stores is either old lady dresses or slits up to my crotch!

How can I find something I’ll feel comfortable eating, drinking and dancing in while looking somewhat on trend or timeless? I’m thinking something Simple and not too tight around the stomach.

This is my first formal wedding, I usually like funky patterns but that doesn’t seem appropriate.

What online stores do you trust? What dresses have you bought that you liked? Got any formal closed toed flat suggestions? Any advice for this lost soul?? Help?!?!

I can’t recommend Naturalizer shoes for formal events enough- super comfortable. I have had the best luck finding a formal dress on Nordstrom.com because of the excellent search filters- they have filters for length, style, neck style, color, etc. Good luck!

You should consider trying Rent the Runway! They have cute and chic designer dresses that you can try without spending a huge amount of money, and then just return it once you're done (instead of it taking up space in your closet). Do the shoes have to be close toed? You can also consider nice flat sandals, which might help up the formality.

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r/mensfashion on Reddit: "Summer formal" wedding attire for a guest

September 20, 2024 -

I've been invited to a wedding in Atlanta in early June. The invitation specifies "summer formal attire". The wedding and cocktail are outdoors (weather permitting) and the reception is indoors.

I will need to buy a suit for this, since I don't have anything that fits the bill (I just bought a nice, black suit, but alas...). I'd like to save some money, so I'm considering options from either Zara (example) or Uniqlo (example).

A couple of questions:

Do you think that those examples are appropriate for a summer wedding?
What are appropriate footwear options to go with those suits?
I'm assuming I should wear a tie. Any recommendations for a particular style?

About me: 40 y/o, tall, slim, live in France (potentially relevant for store options and for the potential excuse for showing up looking silly, "oh, he's french...")

Merci beaucoup in advance for your help!

Yet another unhelpful made-up dress code that was seemingly picked at random by the couple, blithely assuming that everyone will picture the exact same thing as they do when they hear 'summer formal.' Personally I would wear a light-coloured linen or tropical wool suit, a white or pale pink shirt, and grenadine tie with complementary pocket square. Brown suede loafers and a Panama hat to complete the look.

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March 7, 2020 - I have body shape that's awfully hard to dress for, and this is the only dress so far that seems formal enough and is flattering on me. But I'm worried about the "only the bride wears white" rule given the bodice. I figure the dress is still 85% pink, so it might be ok? If you saw the sister of the groom at a wedding in this dress, would you consider it inappropriate?

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r/Weddingattireapproval on Reddit: Summer formal wedding

July 3, 2024 -

Is this fancy enough for a formal summer wedding in Chicago in July? I’ve always felt like the length was too fancy for cocktail attire, but not sure if it’s formal enough for a formal event. My bf will be wearing a tux

Eh,.... I don't think the material/look is polished enough. I would say no. I think you could do better. Keep looking.

No, definitely not. If your bf is wearing a tux you need to be looking at gowns.

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r/WeddingAttireHelp on Reddit: which is better for Summer "semi-formal"?

February 21, 2025 -

I own both, but am unsure which fits the dress code better (or if I should keep shopping). The first is jersey material, the second has a white base.

I really like this first one and personally I think it could fit semi formal as it’s quite long and neat. Style it up with some heels and jewellery and I think you’d be good.

In Portland OR these are both considered semi-formal. Don’t shoot the messenger.

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r/Weddingattireapproval on Reddit: Which dress for a summer wedding?

January 11, 2025 -

The black is my fav but not sure If I can wear black??

1st one! Beautiful print/ colour and the top half looks more polished than the other options.

Dress 1 is beautiful so I think you should chose that one. Although dress 2 looks a good option too. Is there a theme or dress code for the wedding? Also do you know what colours are in the bridal party?

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r/Weddingattireapproval on Reddit: “Formal summer attire” dress code?

June 15, 2025 -

I am completely thrown by this dress code for a wedding I’m going to on July 5.

“Please come dressed in formal summer attire. For ladies, this includes a summer dress or pantsuit. For men, this includes a suit, tie optional. No shorts, sweatpants, or jeans.”

Formal summer attire? But tie optional for men?? Any recommendations appreciated.

Because of the "no shorts, sweatpants, or jeans," I think they mean formal as in "not casual" versus requesting true formal attire. I'd recommend a flowy dress in a summery color or floral print. I don't think you have to look for something that is truly formal wear.

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r/Weddingattireapproval on Reddit: Can someone post examples and explanations of the different dress codes?

December 6, 2024 -

I’m just curious! Y’all have some great advice and I have really enjoyed reading the comments and learning.

After watching for a while, I still don’t totally get which dress code means what and the order from casual to the most dressed up.

I googled, but it was kinda confusing. 🫤 Would love to learn from y’all if you happen to have a few moments!

Thank you. 😊

At your service!! I’ll post a bunch. I’m a wedding planner/ SAHM so it’s a passion of mine. These are for the USA dress codes. I can’t speak to the other countries but maybe someone can do another post. White-Tie: This is the most formal wedding attire possible (think: White House state dinners and royal events). Simply put, women should wear a formal, floor-length evening gown—no exceptions—with jewelry, heels, and an elegant clutch. Men are required to wear a tuxedo with tails, a formal white shirt, a vest, a bow tie, white or gray gloves, and formal footwear, such as derby shoes or oxfords. Black-Tie: A step down from white-tie attire, black-tie dress codes usually indicate a formal, evening event. Women should wear a floor-length gown that does not reveal the ankles, in sumptuous fabrics like silk and organza. If the wedding seems a bit less formal, however, a sophisticated cocktail dress might be acceptable, but be sure to consult with the bride first. Additionally, it’s okay for women to sport elegant pantsuits if they’re more comfortable with that specific silhouette. As for men, tuxedos are a must. Formal or Black-Tie Optional: As the wording here suggests, this dress code is slightly less formal than a black-tie wedding. So, a tuxedo isn’t required, but can still be worn if preferred. If opting for a suit, however, a formal dark suit, white shirt, and a conservative tie are acceptable. For women, the outfit choices remain the same: a floor-length gown, a fancy cocktail dress, or a dressy pantsuit. In fact, there isn’t much of a difference between black-tie and black-tie optional, although Mae says it’s more acceptable to wear a dress that shows the ankles (which is not true of a black-tie dress code). Cocktail: A small step above semi-formal (which we’ll get to next), cocktail attire is an extremely popular choice within the wedding space. It’s a balance between elegant and comfortable and fancy and pared-back. Instead of a floor-length dress, women should opt for a tea-length, knee-length, or midi look. And while tuxedos are no longer an option, men are required to wear a suit and tie, regardless of the wedding’s setting. Semi-Formal or Dressy Casual: Part of dressing for a semi-formal or dressy casual wedding is paying close attention to when the ceremony will take place. For evening events, darker, more formal colors are recommended, while light colors and airy fabrics work best for daytime affairs. Women can wear below-the-knee dresses, slip dresses, a dressy skirt and top, or an elegant pantsuit (styled with heels, nice wedges, or formal flats). As for men, opt for a dress shirt and slacks, with the option to wear a tie. “Semiformal gives you flexibility on comfort, but be sure not to dress too casually,” Mae adds. Casual: Casual attire will typically indicate that the wedding is being held outdoors or on the beach, meaning the event will be much more laid-back. With that said, jeans, shorts, tank tops, t-shirts, flip-flops, and sneakers are absolutely not appropriate unless specified by the couple. Women can wear a summer sundress or a floral patterned mini, with wedges or dressy sandals. Men should choose to wear dress pants or khakis paired with a collared shirt, with the option to also style their look with a tie or sports jacket. Tropical or Destination: Since tropical weddings are usually humid and hot affairs, you should be mindful of what you choose to wear and lean into lightweight fabrics and airy silhouettes. What’s more, always err on the dressier side of caution, and if you’re questioning whether your look is appropriate, check with the bride. As with a casual wedding, women should look for cotton sundresses and nice sandals or wedges. If the wedding is being held outside and the weather is blazing, consider topping the look off with a sunhat. For men’s attire, guayabera shirts are wonderful for the tropics. Known more commonly as “Mexican wedding shirts,” these short-sleeved, button-down tops usually have decorative square pockets and some form of embroidery.

Semi-Formal or Dressy Casual Part of dressing for a semi-formal or dressy casual wedding is paying close attention to when the ceremony will take place. For evening events, darker, more formal colors are recommended, while light colors and airy fabrics work best for daytime affairs. Women can wear below-the-knee dresses, slip dresses, a dressy skirt and top, or an elegant pantsuit (styled with heels, nice wedges, or formal flats). As for men, opt for a dress shirt and slacks, with the option to wear a tie. “Semiformal gives you flexibility on comfort, but be sure not to dress too casually,” Mae adds.

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r/Weddingattireapproval on Reddit: Which dress for a summer formal/cocktail outdoor wedding

January 19, 2025 -

I’m 4-5 inches shorter than the models so the dresses will be closer to ankle length on me.

I’m leaning towards the first dress (it’s a jacquard fabric and the review pics look nice). I personally don’t like satin, and I’m trying to stay under $150.

First one is great

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r/Weddingattireapproval on Reddit: Summer Formal Dress Code Approved?

October 23, 2024 -

Hello! Summer Formal attire wedding at an orchard in Hood River, OR this August. Does this seem too formal?

No. Just no. Respectfully, it does not look well made, and that bow, just no.

Not a fan of the dress especially with this bow. Also given it's in an orchard, flat bottom shoes, not heels are recommended.

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r/Weddingattireapproval on Reddit: What does one wear to a summer formal wedding…

September 5, 2023 -

Have a wedding end of July, will def be in mid 90s here and invite says summer formal…what kind of dress/fabric ? I know it needs to be long 🥵

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r/Weddingattireapproval on Reddit: What is summer semi-formal attire for a wedding

March 24, 2025 -

Mostly asking for men attire. I want a blue button up, grey pants, brown belt, and brown shoes. Would that be appropriate?

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Yes that should be fine. You can always start with a tie or jacket for the ceremony and remove for the reception. I’m Semi-Formal or Dressy Casual: Part of dressing for a semi-formal or dressy casual wedding is paying close attention to when the ceremony will take place. For evening events, darker, more formal colors are recommended, while light colors and airy fabrics work best for daytime affairs. Women can wear below-the-knee dresses, slip dresses, a dressy skirt and top, or an elegant pantsuit (styled with heels, nice wedges, or formal flats). As for men, opt for a dress shirt and slacks, with the option to wear a tie. Semiformal gives you flexibility on comfort, but be sure not to dress too casually.

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r/Weddingattireapproval on Reddit: What Are the Top Summer Formal Wedding Attire for Men?

December 19, 2021 - Classic two or three piece suits which avoid casual fabrics. Generally formal implies more traditional vs.

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r/Weddingattireapproval on Reddit: Can I wear either of these for a formal summer wedding this weekend?

December 15, 2024 -

Formal summer wedding this weekend. I’m in a small town so I had to order online and nothing turned out so I am panicking…

I am down to these two dresses and five more in the mail that might not deliver on time :(

Can I make one of these dresses work? Any input is appreciated!

Second one is even better but I like both. My thought is that the second one has a better cut and will suit many women, while the first one might not look great on most women because of the cut.

Of these, 2 with elegant hair and accessories is the way to go.