yes
/yĕs/
noun
- An affirmative or consenting reply.
- An affirmative vote or voter.
Other native speakers, do you ever use the word "yes"?
UK - What does answering "can do" instead of "yes" mean (to you)?
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Okay, so I've been realizing recently that I literally never use the word "yes." It's always either "yeah" or "yup." I use "yeah/yup" with people my age, people that are older, my boss, professors, etc. Idk "yes" just sounds so stiff.
I guess maybe I'd use "yes" if I were in a super formal environment like a formal job interview or meeting with the queen king.
Idk maybe it's a generational thing; I'm gen-z.
Am I alone in this?
So I've been living in the UK for 17 years - I am German so English is not my mother tongue
My husband is from the North West of the UK (plazzy scouser..lol). And every now and then we have this conversation about saying "can do" as a response to someone making a suggestion.
He argued that it just means "yes". To me it always sounds a bit like "yeah, if I absolutely HAVE to :eyeroll:" or "I don't want to do it but I'll do it to please you".
He denies that and says that it just means yes. His mum also agrees with him but most of my friends in other parts of the country (especially Yorkshire) agree with me. He argues it's a North West/East thing.
I am on my phone so can't add a survey but I am curious whether this is actually a regional thing or whether it's just a personal/family habit.
It doesn't help that there are quite a few "what the British really mean memes like the one I uploaded.
As a German we have a similar way of responding but I'd say it depends on your intonation which will reveal your true feelings: "Kann ich machen/Können wir machen" - if your really want to do it you'd probably say "Können wir gerne machen" - if you don't want to do it you leave the "gerne" out and look a bit bored while saying it
"can do" on the other hand seems to always sound the same I also realise that can do and could do could mean two completely different things depending on context.
Can you chip in and also tell me which region your are from?