I downgraded my Venture X today because they are taking away complimentary guest access. While I often fly solo, I frequently fly with coworkers, my wife, and/or friends. What is the best (most worth the annual fee) replacement credit card for travel perks with an emphasis on lounge access?

Context: I don't live in an airline hub city, so fly all airlines equally. I spend a very modest amount over the course of a year. I'll subtract travel credit from the AF, but don't want to have to purchase stuff I otherwise wouldn't just to justify the AF.

If my best option really is the Chase Sapphire Reserve or AmEx Platinum, how many times would I have to visit a lounge to justify the AF?

New to lounge access/benefits related credit cards.

Any recommendation which card can provide the best experience (lounge, foods, drinks, miles, etc.)? My main checking/saving is with Chase.

I mainly fly domestic US with some international trips (very few I would say). Majority of the departure airports will be major US cities. I'm now in DC area so I go to IAD or DCA for flights out.

I am planning to travel more from this year, focusing on may be on a couple international and domestic trips. Hence, looking for a travel card with average annual fees, good lounge access and other travel perks like hotel and car rental.

Thanks for your help.

Edit(s):

1. Amex platinum seems pricey considering the annual fee.

2. I need guest access for my wife

3. I fly mostly from JFK or EWR