Bootstrap has a few functions that can be called manually on modals:

$('#myModal').modal('toggle');
$('#myModal').modal('show');
$('#myModal').modal('hide');

You can see more here: Bootstrap modal component

Specifically the methods section.

So you would need to change:

$('#my-modal').modal({
    show: 'false'
});

to:

$('#myModal').modal('show');

If you're looking to make a custom popup of your own, here's a suggested video from another community member:

How to create a custom popup using jQuery and CSS

In order to manually show the modal pop up you have to do this

$('#myModal').modal('show');

You previously need to initialize it with show: false so it won't show until you manually do it.

$('#myModal').modal({ show: false})

Where myModal is the id of the modal container.