My nephew is getting married next year and this is the first grandkid wedding my mom is able to attend. She's in her early 80's and wants to wear pants to hide her legs (scarred from a car accident years ago) but also doesn't want to look casual or too old. (She's in her early 80's but only retired from nursing 4 years ago and walks miles every day...not your typical 80-something.) We've looked a little online (Amazon, David's Bridal & Eileen Fisher) but they are all grays or pastel colors...which she doesn't want. Any other places that sell either a formal pants suit or formal separates? Thanks!

Hello everyone. I (40F) am going to a wedding in May. The bride has asked if my daughter (10) would be a flower girl, and my son (6) to help walk her. We are absolutely honored. My daughter is special needs and struggles a bit with walking (hence her brother helping). She is very high care (still in diapers, had a feeding tube, etc). I would like to wear a nice outfit that is pants, because it is more practical for taking care of my daughter, especially when I have to care for her on the go. I know I will likely be caught in a few photos with the wedding party because I will be keeping track of my kids, so I don’t want to ruin them by being too casual. Also, I am plus size (size 20). Not sure if that makes a difference. Thoughts? Advice?