Recently there’s been a lot of talk about young people leaving SF. I just want to say I’m in my 20s and having a great time. The city is beautiful, diverse, and has a great LGBT nightlife. There are always cool events happening. The food is great and I can take MUNI wherever I need to go. The city has so much character and is unique in the US.

I’s not perfect. It’s way too expensive and has suffered through Covid. It’s not huge or a party city like some people prefer. But it’s clearly healing, albeit slowly, and there seems to be a new wave of young people coming in.

I’m not in tech and I’m gay, so that might affect my experience, but I’m really happy here. There’s a lot to be improved but the allure of SF is not dead for young people. And with a city this great I don’t think it ever will be.

TLDR: Looking for area recs for my BF and I when we move to SF this summer - budget is $4500 for a 1 or 2 bedroom

My boyfriend and I are moving to SF in August from LA and are trying to decide what area we want to live in and what areas we should look at while we're deciding. We are both working in the city (im in Finance and he's in Tech) and both of us have cars. We are deciding between a 1 BR and a 2 BR because we both work hybrid but want to make sure we're living in a nice within the budget. We love going out, exploring new places, checking our restaurants and I love surfing so we want an area thats young and vibing. Both of us are in our 20's so would love to be in a place where there is always things going on! I've heard good things about the Marina District, thoughts on that area?

Would love some recs!

I'm super excited to be moving to the Bay Area this summer for work. I'm from the Midwest so I have no idea what/where the best parts of SF are for young adults. I'll be rooming with at least one, maybe 2, friends from college. Budget is between $2000-2500/month each for a place. We are all into going out and meeting new people as often as possible. I would happily welcome any and all suggestions or descriptions of good areas for us to narrow our housing search! Thanks!

Hey SF folks, I am contemplating a move back to SF after a few years away. I am in my early 30s, single dude, working in tech.

I lived in SF all through my 20s in different neighborhoods and loved it. Had stints in Noe Valley, the Mission, Dogpatch, and Pac Heights.

I still have friends here and am a pretty social guy, but looking to avoid Peter Panning and be more intentional with relationships now that I’m older.

Dating in SF in my 20s was tough-had some success but definitely fared better in other cities. I’m more optimistic now that I’m older and hope people are less flaky.

For those folks who have lived in SF long term or decided to come back, how did your enjoyment of the city evolve as you got older? Did it improve or decline?

Hello! I'm currently deciding between going to grad school in San Diego and San Franciso. I am a woman in my early 20s coming right out of undergrad from the New England area, so I won't have any connections in either of the cities. I'm hoping to move to a place that has a good nightlife, social scene, culture, and is safe. I honestly don't know a lot about either city, so any insight, especially into the early 20s/young professional experience would be much appreciated!

Made a video about being 26 in SF. Wonder if any of you relate.

26 was a time of sadness, fear, loneliness, and doubt. It was also a time of discovery, friendship, and happiness. I grieved and resisted growth. I saw technology boom in front of my eyes. I cared too much about people who cared too little. I learned about myself; I learned about the world.

If you related to any of this video, please let me know!

Hello! I'm currently deciding between going to grad school in San Diego and San Franciso. I am a woman in my early 20s coming right out of undergrad from the New England area, so I won't have any connections in either of the cities. I'm hoping to move to a place that has a good nightlife, social scene, culture, and is safe. I honestly don't know a lot about either city, so any insight, especially into the early 20s/young professional experience would be much appreciated!

I'm in my late-20s, working 100% remote, single (straight male), and currently living in the suburbs. I'm mainly moving for social / dating reasons, the suburbs haven't been great for that... I'm choosing to stay in the bay because I have family here and SF seems like a good first step to city life.

Some quick information:

• Budget: ~$2800 max rent

• Roommate status: Solo, open to roommates

• Desired neighborhood(s): The Mission, NOPA / Lower Haight / Duboce

• Preferred neighborhood amenities (dining, shopping, noise, etc.): Restaurants and groceries in walking distance

• Commute: None

• Car: Maybe?

  • It's a beater so shouldn't be a target for break-ins

  • Planning on leaving the city for skiing, hiking, camping, swimming, etc.

I've narrowed it down to the above areas because those seem to be full of people my age. I also don't want to feel stuck in a neighborhood and these all seem walkable & very central with good transit options for exploring the rest of the city. I want to avoid neighborhoods that people are less willing to visit.

Work-wise I'd like some good nearby spots to work from (cafe, co-working, etc) as I'm a remote worker and enjoy a change of scenery once in a while.

Fun-wise I plan to join a gym, join sports leagues (soccer, ultimate, pickleball), pick up new hobbies (rock climbing, pottery, cooking classes, running), try new restaurants of course, and occasionally go out for some night life (concerts / bars).

TLDR

Should I reconsider my desired neighborhoods (Mission, NOPA, Lower Haight)? Am I missing any neighborhoods that fit my needs? I did find some nice studios in Russian Hill / nob Hill, but I haven't really spent much time there... Would those hoods be a good fit?

I want to know everything about the city. In fact, I have researched it many times on the internet, but I want to hear it firsthand. Especially how the economic power of the people living here realize region by region, how much money they earn monthly and how much they spend on rent and expenses, income levels. What kind of activities they engage in their free time, what they can do outside..

By the way, I took the map especially big because if possible, it's about every region and between these regions, the distance between people going to school or not.. for example, is the distance from walnut creek to palo alto a reasonable distance that can be traveled to work? etc.

I'm in my early twenties. I want to move to a big city, and New York and San Francisco could be attractive options. I want to take the risk of moving to a big city and experience a busy life, hustle, and competitive environment. That's why SF and NY I want to move there.

I have an emergency fund. I plan to move a few months before joining the military (Basic Training starts). I'm interested in applying for sales positions and any business-related job at an entry level that only requires a little experience or certificates (I have some experience working for some startup and businesses like 1-2 years).

I believe that I can be bold at this moment in my life (I don't want to regret it later) because I have no responsibilities such as family, kids, etc.; I only need to take care of myself.

I'm open to some recommendations before moving to a big city.
I'm still considering what option is more interesting: SF or NY.

I'm interested in being surrounded by people who are excellent at their job.
People who are competitive, innovators, and willing to work with hungry people, even if they don't have many skills, give it a shot because of their attitude.

If you have some advice about the job market, rent, lifestyle, or culture, be careful with x,y,z, etc.
I will appreciate your experience. Please give me your honest perspective.

Sincerely

Hi everyone! I just recently graduated and moved into Nob Hill. Does anyone have any recs for meeting new people and meeting new friends in SF? Run clubs, parties, etc?

Thank you!

I always hear mixed answers on this. Seems like most people will want to settle in the suburbs eventually because it's cheaper and safer. I've met only a few people who can't imagine living anywhere else. Curious what a wider audience is thinking.

Hey everyone! I'm a 25-year-old gay man who loves fitness, food, and the outdoors. I'm currently living in Dublin with my parents but am planning to move to San Francisco in the next few months to advance my career as a personal trainer. I've heard that people in SF value health and appearances, making it an ideal place for my profession.

However, I'm on a budget and looking for a studio that costs less than $2000/month. I've checked out areas like Tenderloin, SoMa, Turks, and Hyde but am concerned about the mental health impact due to the high presence of homelessness. I realize my budget is quite tight for SF, but I would appreciate any recommendations on where to look for suitable housing.

Thanks for your help!

Hello all!

I'm currently finishing my residency in San Diego, and while I enjoy living here, I am not 100% it's a sure fit for me. I moved to SD from Philly, and was born/raised in Delaware, so I've only really lived in the East Coast and SD.

I've always dreamt of living in San Francisco and now that I'll be done with my program I'm wondering if now's the time to move to SF.

For context, I'm gay, single, and Indian. The reason why I'm not enjoying San Diego is that the queer community here is hard to fit into, even worse when you're trying to date here. I also miss using public transit to go places, let alone the ability to walk out of my apartment and pop in/out of stores/cafes like I did in Philly. Also, I miss trees hahahaha, don't get me wrong I love the beach and surfing!

I'm aware of the high COL (I'll likely be making around 200k/year) and the crime (car break-ins). My other option, if not staying in San Diego, is the NYC area.

• How is the dating scene for a gay male? Plenty of options, I'm sure, but is it like real-life tinder where it's on to the next one

• I've been told the artsy culture of SF that I used to know is going away due to the high COL, do you find that to be true

• Do you find some neighborhoods walkable enough? A quick grocery store, a couple bars/nice restaurants?

• How's the live theater experience?

Thanks!

My husband and I have accepted a job in SF and are planning to move in early 2025. We're both 27 year olds keen to move to a lively neighborhood with good restaurants, a sunny microclimate and modern apartments! We're currently looking at Mission and Nob Hill but open to expanding our search to other good neighborhoods as well.

Edit: We're looking for a 1B/1B, <3.5K

Would really love some advice on this. Thank you from a clueless East Coast-er :)

I'm graduating college and will be working in sunnyvale this upcoming summer. I'm wondering how bad the commute would be if I lived in SF. I don't get hybrid days and will need to be at work 7:30am-4/5pm everyday.

Any suggestions on living in SF vs closer to work? What other cities have a younger population? Safety is also a big factor for me

edit: for more info, I will be working at a FAANG company which has their own shuttle system or I would take the train. I would not be driving. I interned there last summer living in Sunnyvale and just found my life so boring because I felt like I was surrounded by old people and really missed the college feel of living so close to all my friends

Hey! Would like to hear tips/personal treasured experiences unique to San Francisco.

I am a low 20s male who moved to San Francisco this past September. I plan to be here for the next 4 years.

What would you advise so I and others get the most out of San Francisco and not regret much?

This is very general/non specific. Open to all tips!

Some tips might be join a run club, board game club, yoga at Grace cathedral, and maybe some degeneracy sprinkled on top.

Thanks!