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I’m a fan of group activities outside a “party” setting. It can feel less awkward that way. For my most recent birthday my friends and I went to an escape room and then to a karaoke bar. It was a blast! I will say almost everyone at least knew each other. But even if they didn’t, activities like those are great for building connection. More on reddit.com

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What I usually do is go for easy-to-make food that can be prepared in advance, like dips, snacks, and finger foods. You don’t need a full-on five-course meal. Consider ordering food if you’re short on time! More on reddit.com