Dont use a fake mail generator if private data is in use. Use a separate email for nonsense where you need to give your name away. Use separate accounts work work and private use as many additional accounts as you want and is practical, if you like you can use something like anonaddy Answer from magnus_the_great on reddit.com
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reddit.com › r/privacyguides › what is the best practice for email accounts ?
r/PrivacyGuides on Reddit: What is the best practice for email accounts ?
October 24, 2021 -

Hello folks, Would you recommend to have different email accounts for work and private life ? When would you use a fake email generator and when would you proton mail? Trying to learn more about privacy. Thanks a lot

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Dont use a fake mail generator if private data is in use. Use a separate email for nonsense where you need to give your name away. Use separate accounts work work and private use as many additional accounts as you want and is practical, if you like you can use something like anonaddy
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Best practice depends on your needs, and what you use your email for. For me, registrations is a big chunk of the usage, and usually only is about receiving emails/notifications/password resets etc. I would recommend separating those from the rest, as your email-address is more likely to leak by those services (because they are many and the degree of their security varies). My goals untrusted services do not have my main email-address (which is most services). if any of my email-addresses get leaked, it should impact me minimally or not at all If my email is leaked, i want to know which service leaked it email-address is used for login, and is good to keep secret (and unique) like your password, for extra security email sucks (for security) in general, and i minimize its use as much as possible. I have separated email in at least 3 sections 1. For all the nonsensical accounts/registrations, like social media, forums, shops and games, i use something like SimpleLogin or AnonAddy to generate emails, each service having a unique address you can change without much effort in the event it is compromised. If you find out if any of your email-addresses are leaked, you can now point out the specific service that leaked it. 2. For all the official things (banks, government, medical) i have a dedicated email-address that has my name in it. for one, this email-address needs to be available at all times, and secondly, i do not want to come across unprofessionally with an address like [email protected] (example). 3. For personal things, I have a separate email with my name as well, that i only use with family and friends (for all three that still use email). If you go jobhunting, you could also create a separate email for that if you want. final notes setting up unique aliases for all services you use is quite a bit of work and will take some time. After that, remembering what login credentials you used for all your accounts is impossible, so use a password manager. If you do not use one already, get one. It is probably the best step to increase your security.
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reddit.com › r/selfhosted › a good "name" for your personal email with your custom domain?
r/selfhosted on Reddit: A good "name" for your personal email with your custom domain?
August 22, 2022 -

Hi! I don't know if this is the correct place, but is the /r that can be most close.

I've my custom domain, and suppose that is "myname.com". Furthermore, I've some self-hosted services, like a blog, my webpage, n8n, Plausible, Home Assistant... and the idea is that this services use a specific email to send emails. My domain provider gets me only 1 custom email for free, but as you can send an email "as another email", my idea is to configure the SMTP with this main free email, and set "from:" in every service. For example, for my blog, I send emails as "[email protected]", for my HA, "[email protected]" ... Of course, this emails only can send emails, but not receive.

But... I want to use the main email for my personal communication, mostly for "serious" emails like work or professional stuff. So, my question is, taking into account that the domain have my name, and I'm not a company, but just a person, what would be a good "name" for this email? [email protected], [email protected], [email protected]...

Thanks in advance for your ideas!

Edit: thanks to all for your comments! I think the best way will be use "contact@..." as main address (more general) and then maybe just pay for a dedicated email server to use all the other addresses.

Edit2: after all the comments, I checked the options for my mail service, and I found that I can create "redirects", that is a new email address but without dedicated space, so with this I can redirect this addresses to my main address. I didn't know this functionality, and I though to receive (accept) emails to an address you need to have a dedicated space. So, many thanks again to all :)

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reddit.com › r/icloud › how do you guys manage your personal emails (one for everything vs. multiple)?
r/iCloud on Reddit: How do you guys manage your personal emails (one for everything vs. multiple)?
August 20, 2025 -

Hey everyone,

I’m trying to figure out the best way to manage my personal email setup and wanted some input.

Right now, I have a Gmail account from work, but that’s mainly for office stuff. I’m about to buy a new iPhone and will be setting up iCloud for the first time. My idea was to use my personal Gmail as my main email for everything (socials, banking/finance, job portals, memberships, etc.) and just keep the iCloud email as the recovery/backup or might use this as my main (Can't decide)

I’ll also make sure 2FA is enabled on all important accounts and be cautious about where I share my email.

Does this sound like a good setup, or is it smarter to split things up (like one email for banking, another for social, etc.)?

Also curious — what’s your setup like? Do you mainly use Gmail or iCloud? And how many personal accounts do you maintain?

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reddit.com › r/privacy › should i switch my personal email (which is my real full name) to my professional email and create a new email for my personal not associated with my real name??
r/privacy on Reddit: Should I switch my personal email (which is my real full name) to my professional email and create a new email for my personal not associated with my real name??
September 7, 2023 -

Trying to improve my cybersecurity. Since I’m on social media, my name is clearly visible to anyone on the internet. At first I thought making a personal email with my first and last name was logical. But now as I have more knowledge about online privacy now, I see this as a security risk. My personal email is literally [email protected]. No spaces or anything else added. So really if anyone wanted to they could guess my email pretty easily.

From a professional perspective, people like to see a email address that’s their full name. It looks yk…”professional.” So do you think it’s wise to switch my personal email to a work related/ professional email?? Honestly this will probably be very difficult to do but I see it as worth it if it protects my privacy.

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reddit.com › r/privacy › who do you give out you personal e-mail to?
r/privacy on Reddit: Who do you give out you personal e-mail to?
November 27, 2020 -

I'm currently in the process of switching my accounts to Simple Login. Recently, I had to give out an e-mail address to a potential employer, and I found out I really have no idea on what I should give them.

I was lucky enough to get a domain that makes my personal e-mail address look professional as hell. However, I have found that I don't really know who I want to give it out to. I am using Proton for my personal inbox, so I could create an address like [email protected] that would point to my inbox, but that may sound a little pretentious. I could also set up a subdomain for SL, but then what does it say? I don't want a HR person to freak out when they see "[email protected]", plus I think that subdomains look a little stupid in e-mail addresses.

I also have no idea what to do when I'll eventually get to changing the e-mail address linked to my bank account or the one my doctor has.

I think the question kind of boils down to:

  • "What will this person do with my e-mail?",

  • "Will an attacker extract my address from our e-mail conversation in case of a leak?" and

  • "Does this even matter if I'm using aliases for all my accounts?"

and I don't have the answers. My personal e-mail address is brand new and so far noone really has it, so I can do a lot for my privacy if I don't screw this up, but I just don't know what to do.

So, if you use e-mail aliasing, what's your strategy?

I also posted about this to r/Simplelogin here.

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reddit.com › r/selfhosted › personal domain for e-mail
r/selfhosted on Reddit: Personal domain for e-mail
January 1, 2024 -

I'm feeling insecure about the fact that my e-mail, and therefore almost my entire digital life, is dependant on the whims of the corporation that is providing the service. If they were to go out of business or just decide to shut down their service, there would be absolutely nothing I could do.

Therefore, I have decided I would like to host my own e-mail. However, the first step is, of course, choosing a domain name.

[firstname][lastname].com is taken, and although there are some great new TLDs I am set on .com so as to cause minimal confusion and lost emails. So I'm wondering if anyone who selfhosts their email could share how they came up with a good domain they'll be comfortable using for the rest of their lives, which is what I want to do.

EDIT: Thank you very much everyone for your helpful advice, it is much appreciated!

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Don't host your own email. The amount of knowledge you would need to do it correctly and ensure delivery to any recipient is expert level. What you can do is use your own domain with a provider. Then you can always move to an other provider if you want. Personally I use protonmail. If you insist, you need to read up on the following types of dns records: Spf, dkim, dmarc and ptr. Then you need to find a host that allows their network to be used for sending and receiving email. And allows ptr records. Next up is finding the email server software you want to use, and read/understand their documentation. You should also integrate your hosting with some anti spam, so you won't get flooded with spam mails. When you start using this for sending emails - you need to take care of the amount of mails you send. Of other mail servers think you might be a spam server you will be blocked, despite doing the other steps correctly. You kinda need to "warm up" the ip.
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The important thing here FIRST is getting your domain. Don’t hesitate when you use a registrar to check it. Do not use godaddy to check as they will then buy that domain. Do not use numbers in your domain, like firstlast2000.com. Avoid dashes like first-last.com. Try flastname.com, or shorten your first. I have tons of domains, from com to net to org to cyou to xyz to up to eu to de to to us to ca…. Get your domain name from a registrar, like porkbun.com or namesilo.com, then look for an email solution. If you can figure out DNS, you won’t go wrong with mxroute.com. DM if you want more help, or brainstorming.
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reddit.com › r/selfhosted › domain for personal and professional email
r/selfhosted on Reddit: Domain for personal and professional email
June 12, 2020 -

Hi guys! I have been thinking of buying a domain for both personal and professional email (different aliases) and a future portfolio.

Unfortunately, my name is pretty common in Italy and the best domains are already registered. I even wrote to the owner of firstlast.com but he didn't reply me back. If he ever will, i will probably buy it.

I have searched a lot and these are the best available domains i have found:

  • flast.com It's not my full name, but i find it acceptable and professional. .com is a no-brainer.

  • firstlast.net I find .net to be outdated. Even though i will probably end up working in the tech industry, i don't want my email to be linked to that.

  • firstlast.email Having a professional email is my main objective, but this would limit a future website. Also, .email can be confusing to some.

  • firstlast.fl My initials are AC and there is a .ac extension. It's personal and creative, but someone could find it unprofessional and confusing. Also, it costs 3x more all the other domains.

  • I don't like .me domains.

I am probably overthinking this, but i want to make the right decision and keep the same email for the rest of my life. Hoping you guys could help me figure out what's the best option. Thank you!

PS. English isn't my first language. If you spot any mistake please tell me :)

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reddit.com › r/sysadmin › what provider do you use for personal email hosting?
r/sysadmin on Reddit: What provider do you use for personal email hosting?
November 19, 2024 -

This is for folks out there not relying on gmail or similar, nor running their own mail server somewhere.

I have bought a domain as part of starting to develop my professional portfolio. I am looking for a straightforward, solid provider I can either point my MX records to and create a mailbox, or forward emails on to a gmail or similar.

I used to run Postfix and qmail servers back in the day for myself but that is far in excess of what I want to do now. Any recommendations for a solid provider?

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reddit.com › r/privacy › what email address do you use for your personal use?
r/privacy on Reddit: What email address do you use for your personal use?
September 21, 2024 -

I am an Apple user, all my devices are, so I used to have gmail and I recently switched to iCloud, even though I have had a good experience I would like to know what email you use and why? And some recommendations.

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reddit.com › r/productivity › how do you guys manage your personal emails (one for everything vs. multiple)?
r/productivity on Reddit: How do you guys manage your personal emails (one for everything vs. multiple)?
August 20, 2025 -

Hey everyone,

I’m trying to figure out the best way to manage my personal email setup and wanted some input.

Right now, I have a Gmail account from work, but that’s mainly for office stuff. I’m about to buy a new iPhone and will be setting up iCloud for the first time. My idea was to use my personal Gmail as my main email for everything (socials, banking/finance, job portals, memberships, etc.) and just keep the iCloud email as the recovery/backup.

I’ll also make sure 2FA is enabled on all important accounts and be cautious about where I share my email.

Does this sound like a good setup, or is it smarter to split things up (like one email for banking, another for social, etc.)?

Also curious — what’s your setup like? Do you mainly use Gmail or iCloud? And how many personal accounts do you maintain?

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reddit.com › r/privacytoolsio › solid alternative to gmail as a permanent personal email provider
r/privacytoolsIO on Reddit: Solid alternative to gmail as a permanent personal email provider
June 16, 2017 -

I've read a lot of posts concerning privacy and email providers and there is various providers that seems to be good freeware alternatives to gmail (protonmail, tutanota, disroot, mailfence, openmailbox, ...). Tutanota for example seems to be pretty good, but my main concern is that all of these services exists for less than 10 years and it may be a problem if they cease to exist after a short period of time and then I lost all of my emails as well as become unreacheable for people that have only my then nonexistent email address. Are there another alternative email providers or any way I can have more trust that the service will still exist in the next 5 or 10 years?

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reddit.com › r/webhosting › personal email domains suggestions
r/webhosting on Reddit: Personal email domains suggestions
November 24, 2019 -

I’m looking into options for a domain name for my personal email. The .com TLD for my first and last name is taken so my options are listed below:

  • @FirstLast.net

  • @FirstLast.us

  • @FirstLast.me

Another option is reversing my name, where the .com TLD is available:

  • @LastFirst.com

Since my name starts with an A, I can also use @ in place of it:

  • @irstLast.com

Any other suggestions would be helpful!

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reddit.com › r/protonmail › advice on choosing personal email domain
r/ProtonMail on Reddit: Advice on choosing personal email domain
September 2, 2023 -

Hi all!

I've been thinking about setting up a personal email address I can use (for now) with Proton Mail that's versatile and not tied to any specific email client. The idea is to use it for all non-work related matters, providing me with flexibility when switching email clients. However, I'm having a hard time deciding on the right domain name.

My current thought is to go with the format [email protected]
as it conveys the idea of a 'general' personal email address, but the disadvantage is that this TLD isn't very common (although it is very simple).

How did you decide what domain to pick for your private, personal email domain? What considerations should I keep in mind when choosing a domain name? Any suggestions or recommendations are greatly appreciated.

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The big problem, especially if you have a common name, is that most of the prime ones are taken. My name isn't super common, but I've found about a dozen of me out there in the world (based on first/last). I am hoarding a chunk of the digital real estate, I have firstlast@gmail, I have firstlast@hotmail, yahoo, etc.; I have firstlast for facebook and firstlast for instagram, twitter, all those. I have firstlast.com and .me (other people have the rest). Some company is running some sort of "buy your name as email address" service on last.com and i'll pass on letting some rando company route all my email, but I was able to snag last.io . All other last.tld were taken by others or companies, except as youve mentioned some of the more esoteric ones. I have firstlast.com, last.io, and a random domain (e.g. mail123.com ) hosted on protonmail (simplelogin for mail123.com) . I use @simplelogin.com aliases for throwaways (random pizza shops, or need to sign up to a mail list) which gets forwarded to random123@protonmail, use @mail123.com (forwarded to mail123@protonmail) for things where I want to retain ownership regardless of email provider (e.g. banks, companies with whom I do business), and I use last.io for communicating with people (hosted on protonmail) - kind of, most people still email me at my gmail. When I'm working with non-tech savvy people who get confused that someone could be receiving personal email at something other than gmail, aol, etc., I sometimes still give out my firstlast@gmail email address. For me personally, I would stick to some of the more popular TLDs. Especially if you will be interacting with people who are not techy. You can pretty much guarantee if you have [email protected] , that some of your emails WILL be sent to [email protected] . I'm not a big fan of .co because people will (probably correctly) assume that most of the time it's a typo and you meant .com, and will helpfully "fix" it for you. .life doesn't have that problem, but I would assume that maybe 5% of the population realizes that things can end in things other than .com, .net, .org, etc. If you do go with .life, you can consider if you want the domain to forward to your linkedin or something, to give people a bit of comfort that they are emailing something that actually exists. https://www.scoutdns.com/100-most-popular-tlds-by-google-index/ is an interesting look at the more popular ones. And for a registrar I use cloudflare because they include privacy by default for free, and their website is super clean and fast, and they allow passkeys for authentication. If you run a website they also have great features for that. I was on Godaddy, but between getting spammed to use services I don't want, and the options being very confusing (I wanted domain privacy for all my domains - and was willing to pay - but somehow they dropped it? and then I got a ton of spam) I just couldn't stand them anymore.
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For a private email, even [email protected] is good if you can get it, otherwise i've used .email or even your country tld in the past (eg .ch). If you are keeping it private i wouldn't worry about it being an uncommon tld, use a separate custom domain with SimpleLogin for that.