I've gone through the daybed/futon dilemma myself and concluded I hate them both. Futon mattresses ALWAYS slide off the frame when the thing is in sitting position. Futon frames are bulky and unwieldy, and ugly. And very heavy. Day beds are bulky - the height takes up a lot of space. no one sits on them, they're not particularly inviting as a seating option. The twin mattresses with framing on three sides make them uncomfortably small as a sleeping option for tall people, impossible for more than one person. I gave away my daybed and my futon frames, I still have two nice, upgraded futon mattresses, which i use as bed mattresses. I'm currently looking for a platform bed frame for one of the (full size) futon mattresses. More on reddit.com

Sounds like you need the Japanese futon life. No frame, so there’s no weight limit. Just two futons, when not in use you fold them and stack them. More on reddit.com

Hear me out, but I got a fancy pants inflatable double height king mattress a few years ago and it's legit as comfortable as any mattress I've ever owned. I was skeptical because I grew up with the crappy dorm-style inflatable mattresses where you wake up on the floor and I am a terrible princess-and-the-pea sleeper with a gnarly form of degenerative arthritis. I bit the bullet when I needed something I could take up to our yurt in the mountains so I'd be able to sleep comfortably if I was going to stay a couple days. It's great. It's nice and tall, can inflate to a good firmness (I love a firm mattress) and can withstand enthusiastic...activity. If I had it set up in my home, I'd probably get an extra-long bed-skirt just for aesthetics, but even with regular sheets, blankets, and duvet, it looks nice enough to where I wouldn't feel embarrassed at all to have my guests see it. EDIT: The brand I bought was Englander, which comes with a 10 year non-prorated warranty. They're made in the USA by a company that has been around since 1894. More on reddit.com

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