Been living in NL for the last 7 years, came here for a Masters degree and ended up with a job. Originally from South-East Asia and like you, I've always wanted to move to the EU (After several holiday-trips when I was young). Don't really like it here as much as before and looking to move back to Asia. There are quite a few reasons but they mainly boil down to: Really high cost of living; literally everything from groceries to basic services cost an arm and a leg. With the current salaries, unless you live a very frugal lifestyle or have a DINK (double income-no kids) , savings are very hard to come by. High taxes, to the point where earning a gross income of 70k and 100k euros feels roughly the same in monthly expenditure (But atleast the infrastructure makes up for it I guess?) Weather is really gloomy for three-quarters of the year and the food is extremely bland. Lunch is a combination of a slice of meat, brie/gouda/random-cheese and bread. Food culture seems to be largely absent (helped me learn to cook actively at home). There is no real "nature" to speak of (atleast in NL). Everything is carefully proctored and planted. Doesn't really help the fact that the country is really small to begin with, this results in highly dense, compact architectural-style of building things around one-another. The existing infrastructure (immigration offices, transport services, public institutions etc.) cannot accomodate for the large influx of expats/immigrants in the recent years and results in delays of weeks/months. Maybe a personal con - it gets boring after a while; life is very stable here. You work roughly 35-37.5 hrs per week, have a hobby on the side and basically watch time pass by. As a late 20s M, I started craving a bit more. Cities don't really feel like cities, for example, Amsterdam feels like a small town when compared to NYC, London or Tokyo. The Dutch mentality of "doe normaal" or the saying "doe maar gewoon, dan doe je al gek genoeg" enforces blending-in or fitting-in. Contrary to how libertarian the Dutch seem on the outside, everything is fairly rigid (from friend-circles to planning events to taking risks). Despite all of this, my complaints are merely first-world problems. There is a steady supply of electricity and water, my fridge is stocked with food and I feel safe when walking out in the streets. Also, had the chance to study with world-class researchers in my field and meet quite a lot of people. NL also has easy connections to other major EU capitals, so getting around is really easy (and fairly cheap!). If this resonates with you, by all means give it a go! Who knows? You may end up liking it here. Answer from LumiereCastaway on reddit.com
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reddit.com › r/expats › any expats here who did not like living in a western european country? what didn't you like about it?
r/expats on Reddit: Any expats here who did not like living in a Western European country? What didn't you like about it?
May 20, 2023 -

Hello. I am relatively new here and I noticed that Western Europe seems very popular and desirable place on this subreddit. I've visited Europe a few times and there are definitely lots of great things in many of its various regions/countries! But I haven't read much cons/downsides about Europe here (except UK) . I would love to move to Europe someday myself, but surely no place is perfect and there must be people who didn't like living there.

I already learned so much about the wonderful parts of life in Europe after lurking on this sub but I would like to learn about the downsides as well. If you moved to a country in Western Europe but didn't like living there, what didn't you like about it? If you moved out because you didn't like it, where did you end up moving to? Thanks!

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Been living in NL for the last 7 years, came here for a Masters degree and ended up with a job. Originally from South-East Asia and like you, I've always wanted to move to the EU (After several holiday-trips when I was young). Don't really like it here as much as before and looking to move back to Asia. There are quite a few reasons but they mainly boil down to: Really high cost of living; literally everything from groceries to basic services cost an arm and a leg. With the current salaries, unless you live a very frugal lifestyle or have a DINK (double income-no kids) , savings are very hard to come by. High taxes, to the point where earning a gross income of 70k and 100k euros feels roughly the same in monthly expenditure (But atleast the infrastructure makes up for it I guess?) Weather is really gloomy for three-quarters of the year and the food is extremely bland. Lunch is a combination of a slice of meat, brie/gouda/random-cheese and bread. Food culture seems to be largely absent (helped me learn to cook actively at home). There is no real "nature" to speak of (atleast in NL). Everything is carefully proctored and planted. Doesn't really help the fact that the country is really small to begin with, this results in highly dense, compact architectural-style of building things around one-another. The existing infrastructure (immigration offices, transport services, public institutions etc.) cannot accomodate for the large influx of expats/immigrants in the recent years and results in delays of weeks/months. Maybe a personal con - it gets boring after a while; life is very stable here. You work roughly 35-37.5 hrs per week, have a hobby on the side and basically watch time pass by. As a late 20s M, I started craving a bit more. Cities don't really feel like cities, for example, Amsterdam feels like a small town when compared to NYC, London or Tokyo. The Dutch mentality of "doe normaal" or the saying "doe maar gewoon, dan doe je al gek genoeg" enforces blending-in or fitting-in. Contrary to how libertarian the Dutch seem on the outside, everything is fairly rigid (from friend-circles to planning events to taking risks). Despite all of this, my complaints are merely first-world problems. There is a steady supply of electricity and water, my fridge is stocked with food and I feel safe when walking out in the streets. Also, had the chance to study with world-class researchers in my field and meet quite a lot of people. NL also has easy connections to other major EU capitals, so getting around is really easy (and fairly cheap!). If this resonates with you, by all means give it a go! Who knows? You may end up liking it here.
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I lived in Luxemburg for 2 horrible years. Soulless place. The expats were mostly bankers, there to make money. The natives looked down on me because I could only speak German and English, no French. (Nevermind they could speak German but did not want to.) Good food, but bloody expensive. Give me Germany over Lux any day!!!!
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The original and only 2westerneurope4u
April 9, 2022 - This means that we can't have glorification of racism, antisemitism, homophobia, europhobia or other actual hate speech. We shit on everybody. Nobody gets a free pass. However, take extra care when shitting on minorities, as they are extra protected by Reddit´s Content Policy. The survival of this sub is more important than your dark joke. ... Comments can go offtopic, but the posts must be about Western European countries or about the sub itself ("meta").
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reddit.com › r/europetravel › west europe vs east europe tourism
r/Europetravel on Reddit: West Europe VS East Europe tourism
March 18, 2024 -

I'm defining the west and east by a vague criterion. Some examples of the Western European countries (though many located in South Europe geographically) are Italy, Spain, France, the UK, Swiss, etc. where loads of tourists from around the word come to visit. While the East European countries that I'm talking about are commonly post socialist states (though, again, some of which will be identified as Central Europe geographically like Hungary).

Though places like the Balkans, Baltic, Hungary etc. are often discussed on this subreddit, it's still undeniable that the west european countries attracts more tourists. Eastern Europeans countries may be popular for Europeans but not widely known by outsiders.

Do you guys regard countries/tourism spots in the Balkan, Baltic, etc. on the same par with tourism spots on the Western Europe? I'm really into travel around the Balkans with my friends during the summer. I don't know if those Western European countries might be overrated based on their popularity or they are just better than the East.

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reddit.com › r/politicaldiscussion › will (western) europe remain globally relevant long term?
r/PoliticalDiscussion on Reddit: Will (Western) Europe remain globally relevant long term?
July 3, 2023 -

At the moment, it looks like the Western Europe is losing its importance on the global arena compared to other countries, mainly the US and China.

I think this decline has several aspects:

Economically, Western Europe is a fragmented market with tight regulations, which makes it less attractive to investors than the US. That why I think we haven’t seen new European companies becoming big on global markets in the last decades, while the US got Apple, Microsoft, Google, Meta, Tesla, China has started producing everything for everyone and got companies like Huawei and ByteDance (TikTok) owner. Europe doesn’t have much to show in comparison.

They have high taxes that are spent on supporting ageing populations. Removing this support would be a political suicide, but maintaining it would require more and more spending, thus even higher taxation and less attractiveness to business.

Western Europe also doesn’t have much naturel resources (relatively speaking) and is deindustrialising, therefore becoming less able to satisfy its needs and more dependent on imports.

Western Europe previously had an advantage over many other countries due to having more educated population, but it doesn’t appear to be the case anymore.

As far as the international politics is concerned, the Western European countries are, by and large, satellites of the United States. The most it can practically do is not participating in some of the US aventures (like France and the Iraq war). The last time some of them tried to play their own game was the Suez crisis, and it didn’t end well.

So is there anything going well for Western Europe? Will it be able to offer something to the world going forward, or will it slowly dwindle into irrelevance?

Edit: thanks all who shared their opinions and listed the reasons why Europe should remain relevant long-term, such as still-strong economy, long-term stable democratic institutions, ability to grow enough food, having ample water resources, infrastructure etc. I would also add an acceptance of immigrants, who move here long-term, as it helps with the demography when needed. You really made me feel better about the future of my continent 😀

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reddit.com › r/2westerneurope4u › gotta love the diversity of western europe
r/2westerneurope4u on Reddit: Gotta love the diversity of Western Europe
January 30, 2022 - 262K subscribers in the 2westerneurope4u community. Ironic ultranationalistic memes about Western European countries (Netherlands, Luxembourg, Germany, France, Italy, Spain, Portugal, Greece, UK, Ireland, Denmark (incl.
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reddit.com › r/expats › easy breezy life in western-europe
r/expats on Reddit: Easy breezy life in Western-Europe
January 14, 2023 -

I got triggered by a post in AmerExit about the Dutch housing crisis and wanted to see how people here feel about this.

In no way is it my intention to turn this into a pissing contest of 'who has in worse in which country' - that'd be quite a meaningless discussion.

But the amount of generalising I see regularly about how amazing life in the Netherlands (or Western-Europe in general) is across several expat-life related subreddits is baffling to me at this point. Whenever people, even those with real life, first-hand experience, try to put things in perspective about how bad things are getting in the Netherlands in terms of housing and cost of living, this is brushed off. Because, as the argument goes, it's still better than the US as they have free healthcare, no one needs a car, amazing work-life balance, free university, liberal and culturally tolerant attitudes all around etc. etc.

Not only is this way of thinking based on factually incorrect assumptions, it also ignores that right now, life in NL offers significant upgrades in lifestyle only to expats who are upper middle class high-earners while many of the working and middle class locals are genuinely concerned about COL and housing.

What annoys me is not people who want to move to NL because of whatever personal motivation they have - do what you need to for your own life. Especially if you are from a non-first world country, I understand 100%. But when locals in that country tell you X = bad here, why double down or resort to "whataboutisms"? Just take the free advice on board, you can still make your own informed decision afterwards.

Sorry for the rant - just curious to see if more people have noticed this attitude.

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reddit.com › r › YUROP › comments › 1dyykgo › western_europe_whole_europe
Western Europe =/= whole europe : r/YUROP
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reddit.com › r/2westerneurope4u › we finally know what western europe is 🤯
r/2westerneurope4u on Reddit: We finally know what Western Europe is 🤯
May 10, 2021 - Ironic ultranationalistic memes about Western European countries (Netherlands, Luxembourg, Germany, France, Italy, Spain, Portugal, Greece, UK, Ireland, Denmark (incl. Greenland), Norway, Sweden, Finland, Iceland, Switzerland, Austria, Flanders ...
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reddit.com › r/travel › where to spend roughly 10 days in western europe?
r/travel on Reddit: Where to spend roughly 10 days in Western Europe?
March 29, 2024 -

For context I am a single 25 year old American guy. The entire trip is about 2 months with family and friends for different parts but I have roughly 10 days to myself from about May 20 - 30th. I’ll already have been to Morocco, Southern & Western Germany, Florence, Croatia, Kotor, and coming off a week in Turkey right before this. I can fly from Istanbul to pretty much anywhere- I just need to be in the Madrid area around May 30th. Then I want to be in Paris by June 3 before flying out. I’ll have a continuous Eurail pass for what it’s worth.

Looking for recommendations on where to go. Aside from what I already listed on destinations this trip, I’ve been to Barcelona, Madrid, Paris, most of Germany (sans Berlin), Prague, London, Rome, and the Dolomites in the past. Looking to go new places. Thinking maybe 3 ish cities. Also for what it’s worth and I know it’s shamed on this sub a lot- personally I love the go-go-go trips, I’m perfectly fine doing just one day in plenty of cities and jamming it full of activities and sites. If I wanted a relaxing trip I’d be on a beach in Hawaii lol.

Anywhere specifically that’s fun for someone my age, and would be new to me?

I’m really into architecture, food, museums (although not modern art, like at all), nature, mountains and landscapes. Switzerland would be my ideal destination but seems way too spendy. I enjoy nightlife pretty heavily although since I’m alone I probably won’t do much bar hopping or clubbing at all. I’ll probably be staying in hostels close to the city centers (this is new to me, kind of nervous!). Not against smaller towns and destinations but will probably stick to the bigger cities.

Thanks in advance!

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reddit.com › r/solotravel › western europe itinerary
r/solotravel on Reddit: WESTERN EUROPE ITINERARY
June 21, 2021 -

Hey all! I am planning my first solo trip to western Europe. I plan to go either the month of April or June. So far I have Lisbon, Lagos, Madrid, Barcelona, Nice, Paris, and Amsterdam.

I plan on staying 3-4 nights in each city. Is there anything you guys would recommend or have alternative suggestions? (particularly about France, I am the most ignorant about the country)

For reference I am 22 F, love the outdoors and hiking, trying to stay on a budget, and appreciate the history but would prefer to not spend all day listening to someone drone on tours.

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reddit.com › r/askeurope › eastern europe, how do you perceive western europe?
r/AskEurope on Reddit: Eastern Europe, how do you perceive Western Europe?
March 26, 2018 -

Or Western Europeans? In the US we hear a lot about Western Europe’s take on the east. I’d like to hear the other side.

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Inexplicably condescending in many issues to be honest. I often see arguments like "you're shit because you're not there yet", which comfortably disregards where we've come from and what has been the pace of development.
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Depends on the context. Many times I don't really look at the Western Europe as some unified bloc, but I rather look at the individual countries or I group them in a different kind of way, for example - Nordics or smaller vs bigger countries or Benelux and so on. But in other contexts, the West x East division is relevant. For example we have some political disagreements where the division more or less copies this West x East division. In certain issues, the populations just on average have different attitudes. There is also the economic divide of course. In this sense, many people in EE think that Western European act arrogant towards us due to the wealth disparity. And to be fair, yeah, some of them totally do. Probably a majority of them, although not all with the same intensity. And also, plenty of people in the Eastern Europe really making it worse for themselves by seeing the contempt and condescension even when it's not there. Unfortunately the historic experience of this region in the 20th century has mostly been so fucked up that we really do suffer from a victim complex - i.e. we automatically assume that nobody likes us, nobody is to be trusted, everyone will just fuck us over when given chance, we can't rely on anyone, the West just wants to keep as pawns in their geopolitical game but we'll never have their respect and so on. All these feelings aren't completely unfounded. It's simply true that many Western Europeans do look down on us, some with contempt, some just with patronizing pity, as if we were some retarded children that need their help and wise guidance. Western European governments sometimes do act in a very hypocritical way, grandstading about muh European values, accusing us of all sorts of shit, while silently doing shady shit as well. However it's not all of Western Europeans who act this way. And even those who do so - not all of them do it with any kind of real hatred, many of them are simply ignorant about EE countries, the same as they are ignorant about, say, Latin American countries. And it's not like Eastern Europeans aren't ignorant about other countries and it's not like we do not have any tendencies to look down on people/countries who we think are poorer than us. And it's not like our governments never apply double standards. It's just that when WE does this towards us that we react with strong knee-jerk emotional reactions. In many cases, we already expect this behaviour so much that we see it everywhere.
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reddit.com › r/europefire › looking for advice on relocating to western europe
r/EuropeFIRE on Reddit: Looking for Advice on Relocating to Western Europe
October 31, 2023 -

Hi everyone!

I'm fortunate enough to have reached FATFIRE while living in Eastern Europe (my yearly income is comfortably in the lower seven figures), which has allowed me to step back from work and focus on my family. I have children around 10 years old, and we're now considering moving to Western Europe for a higher quality of life, especially when it comes to education and overall environment for raising kids.

I'm looking for suggestions on places that not only have excellent schools and universities but also offer a great lifestyle for families. Ideally, we're seeking a location with:High-quality education (both secondary and university level)A coastal location with good weather—having access to the sea is a big priority for us parents!A family-friendly environment with plenty of activities and culture.Right now, we're considering:The South of France – How are the schools and universities in that region? I’ve heard wonderful things about the quality of life, but I’m not sure how it stacks up in terms of education.Valencia or Barcelona, Spain – These cities are also on our radar. Does anyone have experience with the education system here? How do they compare in terms of balancing family life, weather, and school quality?I

would love to hear your thoughts and any personal experiences you may have, especially if you've made a similar move or live in any of these areas.Thanks in advance for your insights!

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reddit.com › r/2westerneurope4u › the real western europe?
r/2westerneurope4u on Reddit: The real Western Europe?
November 9, 2023 - 255K subscribers in the 2westerneurope4u community. Ironic ultranationalistic memes about Western European countries (Netherlands, Luxembourg, Germany, France, Italy, Spain, Portugal, Greece, UK, Ireland, Denmark (incl.
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reddit.com › r/2westerneurope4u › western europe, more like just the uk
r/2westerneurope4u on Reddit: Western Europe, more like just the UK
February 26, 2024 - 262K subscribers in the 2westerneurope4u community. Ironic ultranationalistic memes about Western European countries (Netherlands, Luxembourg, Germany, France, Italy, Spain, Portugal, Greece, UK, Ireland, Denmark (incl.
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reddit.com › r/2westerneurope4u › which countries are western european?
r/2westerneurope4u on Reddit: Which countries are Western European?
March 5, 2023 - General rule: if the Ottomans or Mongols invaded you, then you are Eastern Europe. ... Yes (more than one i believe), Poland/Lithuania luckily saved them. ... Well, nothing bad ever came of a plan to split Poland in two. ... Ottomans invaded Italy in the 1470s or 80s. Italy confirmed Balkan? ... Bohemia was an important part of the Holy Roman Empire so they get a pass in my opinion. So does Finland for being a part of Sweden for a long time. Having been part of a Western European country and having a significant part of your history intertwined with Western Europe makes a country eligible admittance to Western Europe in my opinion.
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reddit.com › r/europefire › will eastern europe ever overtake western europe?
Will Eastern Europe ever overtake Western Europe? : r/EuropeFIRE
March 19, 2024 - Eastern European countries are very economically competitive and most of them have made very solid reforms in rule of law and education. Low tax burden + solid institutions and an educated workforce leads to economic growth. Further they don’t just depend on Western Europe for growth like some zero sum game, they are growing in their own right, some are already richer than some Western European countries, a few are even forecasted to become among the richest countries in Europe (Poland, Estonia, Lithuania).
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reddit.com › r/2westerneurope4u › the real condition to be called "western europe"?
r/2westerneurope4u on Reddit: The real condition to be called "Western Europe"?
July 28, 2023 - Greenland), Norway, Sweden, Finland, ... memes about Western European countries (Netherlands, Luxembourg, Germany, France, Italy, Spain, Portugal, Greece, UK, Ireland, Denmark (incl....