I think it is clear that no-one in society would have an interest in there being such a convention.

  • On the one hand, anyone who thought that they might someday need saving wouldn't favor the policy, since it could mean at the moment of danger that a potential saver would feel inhibited from actually doing the saving, out of concern about the burden arising from the extra responsibility that the policy entails. Thus, before or even during the moment of danger, the would-be saved person, worrying that they might not get saved, would prefer society to abandon the policy.

  • On the other hand, a person who just wants to save another person's life at that moment wouldn't want to be burdened with the extra responsibility of looking after them forever onwards, and hence would also prefer to abandon the policy.

A more logical policy, perhaps, and one which also sometimes appears in the popular culture venues you mention, calls in contrast for the saved person to have some lifelong duty towards the saver.

Answer from JDH on Stack Exchange
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Reddit
reddit.com › r/asianmasculinity › "save a life and you are responsible for it." - an apocryphal quote attributed to a chinese or buddhist proverb. i fell for it.
r/AsianMasculinity on Reddit: "Save a life and you are responsible for it." - an apocryphal quote attributed to a Chinese or Buddhist proverb. I fell for it.
July 7, 2016 -

I'm a middle aged man and can't believe that I thought this quote was real until I tried searching for its origin today (reason why below). The closest thing I could find was a Caine quote from "Kung Fu" along with some terrible Yahoo Answers and finally one person explaining how this was a Mcguffin to explain some exotic Asian responsibility.

Can anyone confirm or refute this?

The closest saying that's real seems to be, "Saving one life is akin to saving the world." Which reminds me a lot of Heroes' "Save the Cheerleader, save the world."

Why I was searching for it: I live in Phoenix, AZ and noticed a stray dog in the neighborhood. Took her in when the temp hit 120 and nobody claimed her. Got her a wellness check and found she's going to need $$$$ worth of surgery. I could drop her off at a shelter or at county but I feel responsible for her cuz this damn quote kept going through my head.

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Quora
quora.com › Is-it-true-that-if-you-save-someones-life-you-become-the-owner-of-their-life
Is it true that if you save someone's life you become the owner of their life? - Quora
Answer (1 of 5): No. Not at all. Circumstances are created by God Almighty. You should be thankful to nature, for giving such an opportunity/situation to you. Nobody owes anything to anyone in this world. Everyone gets what they deserve.
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MetaFilter
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According to the Chinese, when you save someone's life... - proverb Confucius | Ask MetaFilter
But that through saving someone's life, you then were responsible for that person... from that moment forward. You were obligated to look after them, and provide comfort and aid if they were ever in need again.
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Quora
quora.com › If-you-save-someones-life-does-that-person-owes-you-or-do-you-become-responsible-for-that-person-Which-cultures-follow-that-policy
If you save someones life, does that person owes you, or do you become responsible for that person? Which cultures follow that 'policy'? - Quora
Answer (1 of 2): No , not at all…if I save anyone's life so it must be my great pleasure , and if he or she got safe then its his or her own luck. And somewhere god want to save his or her life and I am just only the way with help of which ...
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Blogger
myredefinedlife.blogspot.com › 2012 › 09 › if-you-save-life.html
Observations on Life: If You Save A Life...
There is a Chinese proverb, "If you save a life, you responsible for that life." Most of use have heard the other saying, "If you save a life, the person whose life you saved is indebted to you for life." I used to believe the latter. I have since learned the Chinese were, and are, spot on.
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Trek BBS
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If you save a life, are you responsible for it? | The Trek BBS
February 14, 2021 - If you have the means, some type of reward, but that's about it. But in general, no your not responsible. Example you give $5 to a homeless person you expect maybe they go get food. but in reality they go buy some alcohol. Are you responsible for that person buying alcohol or drugs? no you ...
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Wordpress
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Book Review: The Chinese Proverb, by Tina Clough |
May 3, 2017 - ‘If you save somebody’s life, you are responsible for them forever’. This is the Chinese proverb at the centre of this gripping, very readable action thriller.
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Brainly
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Who said When you save a life are you responsible for that life? - Brainly.in
October 15, 2018 - There is a Chinese proverb, "If you save a life, you responsible for that life." Most of use have heard the other saying, "If you save a life, the person whose life you saved is indebted to you for life."
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Goodreads
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The Chinese Proverb (The Hunter Grant Series Book 1) by Tina Clough | Goodreads
'If you save somebody's life, you are responsible for them forever'. This is quite a burden to take on, and is the Chinese proverb at the centre of this gripping, very readable, action thriller.
Author   Tina Clough
Pages   260
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Reddit
reddit.com › r/askphilosophy › is there a philosophy behind the idea that if you save someone's life who wanted to kill themselves then you become responsible for them?
r/askphilosophy on Reddit: Is there a philosophy behind the idea that if you save someone's life who wanted to kill themselves then you become responsible for them?
September 23, 2020 - This idea of having a lifelong responsibility for anyone you save from death (regardless of cause) is often discussed as a Chinese, Japanese, or unspecified Asian or Buddhist proverb, but it’s hard to find any nonfiction sources for it.
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Pinterest
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You know, the Chinese say that once you've saved a ...
August 3, 2014 - #Vertigo #JohnScottieFerguson: You know, the Chinese say that once you’ve saved a person’s life, you’re responsible for it forever.
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Medium
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Am I Morally Obligated to Save a Life? | by Kris Williams | Medium
July 4, 2019 - When I think of all the ways it’s possible to save lives — pulling someone out of a fire, giving them shelter during the cold, giving them food when they are starving, giving them CPR or the Heimlich maneuver — it seems as though the pattern is that no individual is morally obligated to save another individual, yet society as a whole (at least in some countries) feels obligated to save as many individual lives as possible.
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Fandom
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I Owe You My Life | Tropedia | Fandom
Suddenly one Diving Save later, ... of owing one's life to another is simple. Someone saves your life and you must repay them, especially if you live by a strict honor code....
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Wikipedia
en.wikipedia.org › wiki › Pikuach_nefesh
Pikuach nefesh - Wikipedia
1 week ago - Pikuach nefesh (Hebrew: פיקוח נפש), which means 'saving a soul' or 'saving a life', is the principle in Halakha (Jewish law) that the preservation of human life overrides virtually any other religious rule of Judaism. In the event that a person is in critical danger, most mitzvot become inapplicable if they would hinder the ability to save oneself or someone else. The Torah, in Leviticus 18:5, states simply: "You shall keep My statutes and My laws, which a person shall do and shall live by them.
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Quora
quora.com › If-you-save-a-persons-life-does-that-person-owe-you
If you save a person's life, does that person owe you? - Quora
Answer (1 of 7): If a deer jumps in front of your moving vehicle, and you swerve and avoid killing it, it doesn't owe you nor would it have a clue of how to repay you. So you cannot expect a human owes you anything either for saving them. What you could ask for is a new cellphone if you jumped in...