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September 9, 2025 - When Aurelius discovered Faustina’s affair with the gladiator, he decided to punish both of them in a horrifying way. He ordered the execution of the gladiator and made Faustina bathe in her lover’s blood.
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1 month ago - Following the birth of her first child in 147, Faustina obtained the title of Augusta granted to her by the Senate, before her husband Marcus Aurelius became Augustus himself in 161. Not much has survived from the Roman sources regarding Faustina's life, but what is available does not give a good report. Cassius Dio and the unreliable Historia Augusta accuse Faustina of ordering deaths by poison and execution; she has also been accused of instigating the revolt of Avidius Cassius against her husband. The Historia Augusta mentions adultery with sailors, gladiators, and men of rank; however, Faustina and Aurelius seem to have been very close and mutually devoted.
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How do you get over the fact Marcus Aurelius wife cheated on him with a gladiator?
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On Marcus Aurelius forcing his wife to bathe in the blood of her lover
Not to say it couldn't have happened, but the Historia Augusta is generally regarded as a questionable historical source. It contains many provable falsehoods, and other items that are unverifiable in other sources. So take what you read there with a grain of salt. The wiki has a pretty good breakdown of some of the more obviously false sections: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Augustan_History#Historical_value More on reddit.com
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'Lucilla, you are the daughter of Marcus Aurelias therefore I trust you' - wait, WHAT
I agree about the Gracchus line also, kind of demeaning to Lucilla's character that she deserved trust just because of her bloodline and not because of the integrity of her character and how she proved to be trustworthy and leader- worthy in the past. But Ancient Rome didn't really see women as powerful individuals in society so it makes sense. They were very much seen as an extension of the dominant male figures in their lives. But tbh that goes really against Lucilla's entire character from the first movie anyway, she was the strong one orchestrating everything for the men lol. What bothered me also in that scene was the fact that neither character brings up the fact they tried this plan before with Maximus and umm it didn't work. I was hoping they'd remember him or at least reference that he died as a result of the exact same plan failing. Instead they just reference Marcus Aurelius as if Maximus didn't exist and gave his life to protect Lucilla and her son? I know we later get to see Lucilla remember him but it is like the movie kept flipping from wanting to stand on its own to going back to borrowing plots from the first one without linking things appropriately. This to me, created zero emotional substance which was the essence and magic of the first movie. I think Lucius' right to lead Rome through his bloodline is justified though. He has good genes from both his parents and grandfather and he proved that in his ability to lead and by not succumbing to revenge and killing Acacius. He has the strength and integrity of both Maximus and Lucilla in him, two characters who Marcus Aurelius believed could lead Rome. I do wish they focused more on our characters than all the unnecessary action, especially Lucius and Lucilla. Lucilla was always the heart of both movies and I felt we needed more time with her and Lucius. I wanted to see them both reflect on Maximus more and their grief but seemed like the creators were maybe afraid to go there. I enjoyed the movie a lot but man, it had the potential to be another masterpiece if certain things were fleshed out more. More on reddit.com
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Marcus Aurelius was emperor for about 20 years. Which meant that he was essentially dealing with matters of state and the empire for the entire period his children were growing up and they really never knew each other. As a result, Marcus knew his children resented him because he was never present and they realized they weren't important enough to pull him away from his duty as emperor. More on reddit.com
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Marcus Aurelius was the last of the Five Good Emperors of Rome. His reign (161–180 CE) marked the end of a period of internal tranquility and good government. After his death the empire quickly descended into civil war. He has symbolized the Golden Age of the Roman Empire for many generations in the West.
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Despite historical accounts and rumors suggesting that Faustina might have been unfaithful, the accuracy of these accounts is highly debated among contemporary and modern historians.Most of these rumors come from the Historia Augusta, a collection of imperial biographies known for favoring scandal over accuracy. While the text accused Faustina of various affairs and misconduct, one thing remains clear: Marcus Aurelius stayed devoted to his wife despite what anyone said about her.
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Lucius Aelius Aurelius Commodus (August 31, 161, Lanuvio - December 31, 192, Rome) was the last emperor of the Antonine dynasty. Named after his father's co-ruler, Lucius Verus, Commodus would ultimately shape the empire's future in ways his father never intended.
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1 week ago - In 136 the emperor Hadrian (reigned 117–138) inexplicably announced as his eventual successor a certain Lucius Ceionius Commodus (henceforth Lucius Aelius Caesar), and in that same year young Marcus was engaged to Ceionia Fabia, the daughter ...
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November 12, 2024 - Roman gossip claimed that Faustina was constantly unfaithful to her husband, Emperor Marcus Aurelius. She allegedly had affairs with senators, soldiers, sailors, and gladiators. The historian Sextus Aurelius Victor openly wrote about how the emperor's wife publicly, without any embarrassment, seduced muscular sailors working in the ports.
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3 weeks ago - However, when Marcus Aurelius tells his arrogant and unstable son Commodus (Joaquin Phoenix) about the plan, Commodus flies into a rage and kills his father. ... Commodus becomes emperor and orders the death of Maximus and his family. Maximus escapes and rushes to his home in Spain, only to find his wife and son already dead and his house burned down. Maximus is then taken by a slave trader to North Africa, where he is sold to the gladiator trainer Proximo (Oliver Reed).
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Marcus Aurelius: Dear diary, today my wife slept with a gladiator. I had his throat slit and made her bathe in his blood in response. Now let me explain why Commodus should be emperor after me and why it is best to be a virtuous man…
January 8, 2025 - Well, the Historia Augusta does mention it."On a certain occasion, it was said, Faustina, the daughter of Pius and wife of Marcus, saw some gladiators pass by, and was inflamed for love of one of them; and afterwards, when suffering from a long illness, she confessed the passion to her husband.
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Faustina II, also known as Annia Galeria Faustina, was a Roman empress and the daughter of Emperor Antoninus Pius. Born into a prominent family, she married Marcus Aurelius in 145 CE when she was about fifteen years old.
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December 4, 2021 - Some say, and it seems plausible, ... among the people. On a certain occasion, it was said, Faustina, the daughter of Pius and wife of Marcus [Aurelius], saw some gladiators pass by and burned with love for one of them....
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October 11, 2021 - Faustina & Marcus Aurelius, Photo from Wikimedia Commons, Carole Raddato, License CC BY-SA 2.0 · According to the legends, Faustina fell head over heels in love with a gladiator – despite her marriage to the emperor Marcus Aurelius.
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December 10, 2022 - Some say, and it seems plausible, that Commodus Antoninus, his son and successor, was not begotten by him, but in adultery; they embroider this assertion, moreover, with a story current among the people. On a certain occasion, it was said, Faustina, the daughter of Pius and wife of Marcus, saw some gladiators pass by, and was inflamed for love of one of them; and afterwards, when suffering from a long illness, she confessed the passion to her husband.
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February 16, 2021 - They believed his true father was the gladiator who had been the lover of his mother, Faustina the Younger. How else they could explain Commodus’s obsession with the gladiator fights?
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October 27, 2017 - 19 1 Some say, and it seems plausible, that Commodus Antoninus, his son and successor, was not begotten by him, but in adultery; 2 they embroider this assertion, moreover, with a story current among the people. On a certain occasion, it was said, Faustina, the daughter of Pius and wife of Marcus, saw some gladiators pass by, and was inflamed for love of one of them; and afterwards, when suffering from a long illness, she confessed the passion to her husband.
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1 month ago - Lucilla was the beautiful second daughter of Roman Emperor Marcus Aurelius. She was an elder sister to later Emperor Commodus. Lucilla did have a past romance with Maximus, when they were both young and had not yet married. The relationship ended, however, and Maximus married and had a son, while Lucilla married, had a son and later was widowed.
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November 23, 2023 -

I have been into stoicism for a while and have been using it to cope with life but learning this info has made me second guess the entire philosophy. Now whenever I try to be stoic I think about Marcus sitting in the corner writing meditations while his wife gets brutalized by a gigachad gladiator. Now whenever I think about stoicism it seems like a cuck philosophy. Was Marcus really the adam22 of his time? How can I get over this?

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Marcus Aurelius married Faustina the second when he was twenty and she was sixteen. There are stories to the effect that the wife of Marcus Aurelius severely tried her husband's temper at times, but these tales seem to have arisen through a confusion of the two Faustinas.

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18 hours ago - (Marcus had little need of his wife's fortune. Indeed, at his accession, Marcus transferred part of his mother's estate to his nephew, Ummius Quadratus.) Faustina was three months pregnant at her husband's accession. During the pregnancy she dreamed of giving birth to two serpents, one fiercer than the other. On 31 August, she gave birth at Lanuvium to twins: T. Aurelius Fulvus Antoninus and Lucius Aurelius Commodus.
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January 3, 2025 - Faustina was credited with affairs with handsome sailors or gladiators. Chroniclers did not spare accusations, probably exaggerated, about her promiscuity. In 175 CE, one of the greatest crises in Faustina’s life occurred – the rebellion of Gaius Avidius Cassius. Cassius, a loyal general of Marcus Aurelius, declared himself emperor, claiming that he had received Faustina’s support.
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"On a certain occasion, it was said, Faustina, the daughter of Pius and wife of Marcus, saw some gladiators pass by, and was inflamed for love of one of them; and afterwards, when suffering from a long illness, she confessed the passion to her husband. 3 And when Marcus reported this to the Chaldeans, it was their advice that Faustina should bathe in his blood and thus couch with her husband." http://penelope.uchicago.edu/Thayer/E/Roman/Texts/Historia_Augusta/Marcus_Aurelius/2*.html

Not that it has any effect on the value his meditions, etc, but it is pretty interesting--such an overreaction on the part of one of the most well known stoics